What’s My Attractiveness Score?

Take this quiz to see what other people like about you.

There are lots of ways to be attractive, but when we think of attraction, we usually think of 2 things: looks and personality. Which kind of attraction do you have? And if attraction had a score, what would yours be?

Answer a few simple questions, and we'll rate your attractiveness!

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Questions Overview

1. How comfortable are you talking in front of a group of people?
  1. Super comfortable. I want to be in the spotlight!
  2. Sorta comfortable. I can do it, but I don't crave it.
  3. Not very. I'd rather listen to someone else talk.
2. When you're having a 1-on-1 conversation, who does most of the talking?
  1. I do! I like to express myself, and I have a lot to say.
  2. It's 50/50. Every convo is a give-and-take, after all.
  3. The other person. I'm more of a listener.
  4. I'm not really sure!
3. Do you often catch strangers looking at you in public?
  1. All the time! People steal glances.
  2. Sort of, but doesn't that happen to everyone?
  3. Not that I've really noticed.
  4. I don't remember.
4. Is the last photo you took a selfie, or of yourself?
  1. Definitely.
  2. Probably.
  3. I don't think so.
  4. Definitely not.
5. Would you ever go on a literal blind date, where you can't see the person you're dating?
  1. Sign me up! That sounds like fun.
  2. I'd give it a shot, but IDK if that'd really work...
  3. Nah. I wanna see who I'm dating. Why hide?
6. What would you say is your best physical feature?
  1. My eyes
  2. My skin
  3. My physique
  4. My mouth or lips
  5. My hair
  6. My nose
7. What's your favorite part of your personality?
  1. I'm super outgoing and friendly!
  2. I'm open-minded and understanding.
  3. I'm thoughtful and pretty smart!
  4. I keep it cool under pressure.
  5. I'm passionate and driven.
8. No shame: Your biggest insecurity, out of these, is...
  1. My voice. I worry it sounds odd.
  2. I'm afraid I talk too much, or that what is say is dumb.
  3. I worry I don't fit in anywhere.
  4. It takes me too long to get ready. I'm a perfectionist with my looks.
  5. I feel like I don't have the life experiences other people my age do.
  6. None of these, honestly!
9. How do you use social media?
  1. I like to post photos of myself or use it like a journal.
  2. I keep it professional. It's like my resume.
  3. I comment on pop culture or current happenings. I like to yap!
  4. I try not to use social media, tbh.
  5. None of the above.
10. Everyone gets jealous, but what do you usually get jealous of?
  1. Other people's looks.
  2. Other people's social circles or popularity.
  3. Other people's money or lifestyles.
  4. I've never been jealous a day in my life, I swear.

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Expert Advice on Your Glow Up

Attraction is subjective, meaning different people find different things attractive. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make yourself more attractive through some thoughtful hard work! We talked to relationship experts and stylists for tips, and here’s what they had to say.

  • Dating coach John Keegan says to be more attractive, “Accept where you're at, love where you're at and be in that body...the other person really just wants to be around someone who's at ease with themselves, who likes themselves, and who can then be gentle and easy on them.”[1]
  • Image consultant Spencer Shimada advises, “To appeal to others, make sure you feel confident in your look. Everybody can recognize a confident person by the way they carry themselves and in most circumstances, it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing, as long as you feel proud in it.”[2]
  • Love and relationship coach Nicole Moore says, “Confidence is the number one thing that people find sexy in another person. When you know what you’ve got and what you’re bringing to the table and you value who you are, you become instantly more irresistible to others.”[4]

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References

  1. ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ Spencer Shimada. Image Consultant. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Rebecca Tenzer, MAT, MA, LCSW, CCTP, CGCS, CCATP, CCFP. Clinical Therapist & Adjunct Professor. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Nicole Moore. Love & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview

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    Sarah R.

    Jan 20

    "Yes, very fun and interesting."
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