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April Davis

Matchmaker

April Davis is a Matchmaker based in Minneapolis, Minnesota. She is the Founder and President of LUMA, a high-end executive matchmaking service designed for singles seeking a long-term committed relationship. April established LUMA in 2010 with the belief that everyone deserves to be in a healthy, loving, and long-lasting relationship. April employs a team of professional matchmakers with over two decades of experience, committed to finding their members the person they will spend the rest of their lives with. In addition to their matchmaking offerings, LUMA offers date coaching services. LUMA was featured on Inc. 5000’s list of Fastest Growing Companies, and April was featured for her work on Bravo's Hit Reality Show, Real Housewives of the OC. Through LUMA’s customized approach for members, dating coaching services, and cultivated connection-building, April has designed a business to help clients meet their perfect match. She received a Master’s Degree in Business Administration, Management and Operations and a BA in Accounting and Business/Management from The College of St. Scholastica.

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Forum Comments (23)

I have a crush but I don’t know if he likes me
He's already shown his interest in you. He switched seats to sit beside you, is calling and texting you, and even tried to kiss you. From what you wrote, it's apparent that he's attracted to you. The next time you two talk, I would simply tell him that you're attracted to him and you were just uncertain about his advances before. Good luck, I have a feeling that he will be very glad you told him :)
Please Help! My crush is acting weird what do I do?
If he's claiming he doesn't want a girlfriend, then he becomes exclusive with someone else, flirting with you off and on for months, and has ghosted you before, it sounds like he's circling back to you when he's lonely. What he's really doing (whether he's conscious of it or not) is keeping your relationship as an option, not a priority. My best advice would be to stop putting your energy into wondering where you stand with him and put yourself first. It sounds like you're genuinely interested in him, but consider this: if he were as interested in you as you seem to be in him, he likely would have made a clear move to pursue a relationship with you by this point. Until (or, really, unless) he makes it clear to you that he's invested and willing to build something real with you, I wouldn't continue to pine over him.
What are some signs a first date is going well during the date?
If you feel like the conversation flows well and that you have much in common (in terms of principles and values), and you're laughing together, that's always a great sign.
What's considered a big age gap in relationships?
It's really less about the age gap and more about the emotional and lifestyle compatibility gap.

Think of it like this:

At 23, do you feel that you've had similar life experiences as a 32-year-old-man? Most 20-something women are still in college or just started their careers, have only had a handful of romantic partners, and may or may not be living on their own.

On the other hand, an early-30s man has likely already obtained his degree (if he pursued one), is well into his career, has likely had a few long-term or serious relationships, and has likely lived on his own for years.

When we frame it like this, it's easy to see the lifestyle and life stage differences.

But take a 50-year-old woman and a 60-year-old man for example. They're likely going to be at similar places in life: they've had kids, are probably empty nesters, close to retirement, etc. There's much less lifestyle, life stage, and maturity gaps between those two.
Dating: I really want to get into a relationship
I hear from a lot of singles in similar situations. Here's my best advice for you:

First, it would be best to answer these questions:

>Why are you truly seeking a romantic relationship? Has a specific guy caught your eye? Or are you just in love with the idea of being in love?

>What actions have you taken to build a relationship? Have you been building new connections with guys, or have you been too afraid to shoot your shot?

If you're not already doing those things, you first step is to start. But if you've been trying to connect with men and it isn't working out, try this instead:

>Rethink your approach. Men love compliments! The next time a handsome guy attracts your attention, tell him he looks nice.

>Put yourself out there in the real world. Dating apps aren't the best tool for finding lasting relationships. Check out community events, local concerts, and popular places in your area to meet other locals.

>Be approachable. That sounds difficult, but I promise it's not with a little practice! Use open body language (no crossed arms, try to keep a neutral face or smile, etc), and make eye contact with guys you'd like to talk to.

I really hope this helps, best of luck to you!
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