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I'm facing Transphobia. I also want ideas for clothing. Like beautifying them I guess. Masc of Fem :)🏳‍🌈 How do I explain to people clothes have no gender?

Gaysharkmoth
Gaysharkmoth
02/23/26 5:16pm
I am a trans man, non binary, and also bigender. (pronouns He/She/They but He/They are preferred) I'm facing problems though. I'm omnisexual, and also leaning more MLM (man love man) lately, but I hate it when people say I'm not really leaning towards MLM because I'm "not a real man", and I could really use some help on that. Also when I wear feminine clothes and people are like "See? You're not really a boy!" Even though CLOTHES HAVE NO GENDER. Some feedback would really help on this. Love y'all! :) {PS if you guys have ideas for transforming clothes masc or fem I would really love that.}
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Gaysharkmoth
Gaysharkmoth
02/26/26 5:45pm
Thx🖤
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Fall_Out_Girl
Fall_Out_Girl
02/27/26 2:58pm
Yw hope it helps
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Fall_Out_Girl
Fall_Out_Girl
02/23/26 7:45pm
Alr so idk tbh becuse I have attempted to wear “masculine” clothes but have failed (as in not allowed/gets thrown away) tbh you could try binders if you want? Ik they can be expensive but there r programs (don’t remember the exact names tho sorry) that have discounted ones or for free but you have to be on an waitlist but im not sure how it works completely. Maybe if you combine what people view (i dont think this but yk what I mean right?) “feminine” clothes with “masculine” clothes tbh im not sure how tho…sorry ik Thos probly didn’t help good luck tho 🖤
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Gaysharkmoth
Gaysharkmoth
02/28/26 5:18pm
Yah thanks. I wear feminine and masculine and I'm technically considered a femboy, and I still wear skirts and Fem clothes sometimes. Binders are really uncomfortable for me, but thank you for your input. :)
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