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I like someone who everyone ships me with but he doesn't know

WikiButterflyWalker160
WikiButterflyWalker160
03/24/25 5:08pm
So, there's this guy in my science class, who sits near me and all, but everyone ships me with him. He doesn't like me based on how he acts, but I've just been nice, like giving him some money to buy something for like a dollar. How should I tell him I like him? I'm especially struggling because I just barely broke up with one of his best friends and he kept asking about my ex. I think he might like me because he had asked me about if I was with anyone, how strict my parents are with dating, if I'm allowed to kiss someone, and stuff like that. He also just barely broke up with his ex and we both have a really good time around each other and we always make each other laugh. Does anyone have any advice on this??
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John Keegan
John Keegan
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03/24/25 5:10pm
Some fun ways to show you're interested would be just sending some kind of image or video that you found on YouTube or song that you like that is playful, light, and flirty. You could say something like, "I saw this video you'd like," or "I heard this song that reminds me of you." So those are some simple ways that we can do it in our modern world of messaging and things like that.

Another thing could be literally passing him a note or sending a fun text message saying, "You're cute" or "You look adorable today," or something like that to show your interest. Ultimately, just being very clear and saying something like, "It's so cute or whenever you're really interested in a subject you just light up, it's so adorable, I can hardly contain myself." So you really just come back and say those things in person instead of beating around the bush. Being direct is always a better way to tell someone you like them than any other way.
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Bunny711921
Bunny711921
11/06/25 10:32pm
I think you should ask to "hang out" a couple of times to see what you feel, and to see how he feels. Read his eyes. You can tell if he'll like you or not, see if his smile is real, and see how his body language is. Watch how he reacts to you playfully shoving him, or touching his arm, stuff like that, but start chill, and slowly don't rush onto him. Just see how it goes, and if everything's good and you feel good about it, go with the flow and trust your gut. I hope you two get each other, and everything goes well!🩷
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NOMNOM
NOMNOM
11/02/25 6:14pm
I think you should probably wait for him to pop the question since he acts like he doesn't like you and also if they aren't popping the question you do it!
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Lill6814
Lill6814
11/01/25 7:06pm
Omg! I'm like the same😅
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