Q&A for How to Find Out Someone's Birthday

Think of something that aligns with the values and interests of the person that's being celebrated. If they thrive in a lively atmosphere, go all out with a big party—bring in some great music, set up a fun theme, and invite a lively crowd. But if they’re more comfortable with a close-knit group, plan a cozy gathering where they can relax with a few good friends, sharing good conversation, food, and connection. If they’re someone who loves self-care, a spa day can be a fantastic option. Get them tickets to a relaxing experience where they can meditate and unwind. Remember to tailor the activities based on their interests and values.

That would be an entirely inappropriate reaction and is generally very unlikely. If someone reacts physically when you ask for their birthday, you should not concern yourself with finding out their birthday any further.

No. Birthdays don't affect someone's outward appearance.

Ask her where she was born. If she tells you a hospital or place, you can begin to search online and at the hospital or city she was born at so that you can find some record of her birth.

You could subtly hint by saying, "I can't believe I'm turning [insert age] soon!" On your actual birthday, you might say, "I can't believe I'm [insert age] today!" Alternatively, you could ask them about their birthday and then casually mention, "Oh, that's interesting! Mine is on [insert date]."