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    How do you understand a woman?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Expert Answer
    You can start by listening and hearing her. You can always clarify, like: "So, you are saying that you would like a little more time to spend with your girlfriends, am I right?" The more you make a point to listen, the more you will learn about her.
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    How can I read a girl's mind?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Expert Answer
    It's not really about reading minds! I hope that is a relief. It is much more about listening, hearing, and asking her questions about her ideas and preferences.
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    How do you know if a girl is in love with you?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Expert Answer
    Pay attention to her facial expressions, body language, and eye contact. She will most likely remember things that are special to you and want to please you. She may do small surprises or treats for you when you don't expect it. She will usually also give you compliments.
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    How can I treat my girlfriend better?
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).
    Klare Heston, LCSW
    Relationship Therapist
    Expert Answer
    Keep your promises, whether that is about what time you said you would meet up, any special activities she has mentioned to you in the recent past, etc. Try to be consistent, kind, thoughtful, and interested in her. Give her compliments when you genuinely feel them.
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