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WikiCheetahSlinger372
WikiCheetahSlinger372
01/30/26 5:34pm
OK guys there's this girl that i like, lets call her sapphire (not real name). she's in the other class so I only see her in between periods and we were great friends well she stopped talking to me after I started dating someone. Lets call this girl ginger (not real name). i recently got cheated on by ginger (I was unfazed I was only dating because I was too scared to say no). Any ideas on how to get sapphire to notice me again or anything? I'm sorry this is probably a waste of time but anyone who's been through something similar that can help me and sorry for making this so long.
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Imsoinlovewithuuu
Imsoinlovewithuuu
02/02/26 9:38pm
FINALLY !! I COULD GIVE LOVE ADVICE!! This is not a waste of time its very very common. Sapphire MOST LIKELY felt hurt, jealous, or simply uncomfortable seeing you with someone else, which is why she stopped talking to you. Since you're single and want to reconnect, the best approach is to be patient like a nice slow burn by rebuild the "Friendship" first. Just dont over do it.
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WikiRomantic
WikiRomantic
02/03/26 4:03pm
i usually make a song detailing on how i might have hurt my gf and it tells her I'm sorry
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