13 Ways to Tell if a Scorpio Man Has Feelings For You

Astrologer Angel Eyedealism explains how Scorpio men express themselves when they’ve fallen deep in love

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Amber Crain

Last Updated: February 2, 2026 Fact Checked

Scorpio men are the dark horses of the zodiac—and they make passionate, intelligent, devoted partners. But this private, mystical water sign is also not the type to shout declarations of love from the rooftops. So how does a Scorpio man express his love? We consulted our team of expert astrologers to bring you all the gossip and details on what Scorpio men are like in love. Read on to figure out if your Scorpio man loves you (and get tips for how to show him you love him back).

How do you know if a Scorpio Man loves you?

Astrologer Angel Eyedealism says the clearest way a Scorpio man expresses his love is by opening up to you. This indicates trust, which is huge for standoffish Scorpios. A Scorpio man in love will also want to spend lots of time with you—they can be a bit obsessive and will also get jealous of other guys easily.

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He looks at you intensely.

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Scorpio men are the strong, silent type, and they love eye contact. Eyedealism says these guys are ruled by the planet of caution and mystery, Pluto.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} That means he might not come right out and say “I love you.” Instead, you’re likely to catch your Scorpio man staring lovingly from across the room in an Edward Cullen kind of way. Look out for quiet moments when he looks into your eyes as if he’s staring straight into your soul.^{[2]
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- When you catch your Scorpio man staring, flash him a smile and look away—he’ll be immediately intrigued.
- Astrologers Tali & Ophira Edut say that Scorpios are very observant. Even when you think they aren’t staring at you intently or even looking at you at all, they’re still paying attention to every detail.^{[3]
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Meet the wikiHow Experts

Angel Eyedealism is an astrologer based in Manhattan’s Lower East Side. She has nearly 30 years of astrology experience.

Tali & Ophira Edut, also known as the AstroTwins, are astrologers, intuitive advisors, and best-selling authors. They’re also the long-time resident astrologers at ELLE magazine.

Aliza Kelly is an astrologer based in New York City. She’s been featured in The New York Times and is a recurring guest on The Drew Barrymore Show.

Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer and owner of Psychic Stina, a psychic business based in Oregon. She’s been a psychic, medium, and astrologer for over 30 years.

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He gives you deep compliments.

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Scorpio's ruling planet Pluto is all about what's under the surface. These guys are far from superficial. Rather than liking an Instagram post or saying something like “you look hot,” he’ll tell you about how much he admires your spirit and personality. This emotional water sign will even tell you how much he adores all your quirks and habits.
- Eyedealism says that a Scorpio is more likely to admire you when you show strength or even a little aggression–they dislike weakness.^{[4]
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- Tip: Show your Scorpio you can match his attention to detail with compliments of your own. Tell him how much you love the strange way he folds his socks, the kind voice he uses when he talks to his little sister, and the way he’s always there for you.

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He initiates dates.

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Scorpio men like to take the lead because they’re cardinal signs. Eyedealism says this sign gets a bad rap for being “power-hungry,” but they’re really just determined and committed—especially in love.^{[5]
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Expert Interview} A Scorpio in love will ask you out to romantic restaurants and plan exciting excursions. He’ll be the first one to text you and ask what you’re up to on the weekend, and the last one to bail on plans with you.
- According to Eyedealism, when a Scorpio is interested in you, he will pursue you almost obsessively.^{[6]
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  Expert Interview} So, don’t be surprised if he asks you out on dates pretty frequently! He can’t help but pursue that which he desires.
- Tip: If you ever want to shake things up and plan an amazing date with a Scorpio, go for something intense like an underground tour, a live rock concert, or a night hike.

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He wants to spend one-on-one time together.

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Love for a Scorpio can be all-consuming and teeter on the edge of obsession. All that romance and desire for connection probably comes from their water sign nature. A Scorpio man might express his love by asking to spend a lot of time (truly a lot) with just you. He’ll skip the group dates and opt for quality time talking late into the night with his favorite person—you.
- Tip: If a Scorpio’s intensity ever gets too much, let him know. Just say something like, “I love you, but I’d love to spend some time with my friends tonight.” If you’re in a healthy relationship, that won’t be a problem for your Scorpio.
- Tali & Ophira Edut say it’s important for a Scorpio to feel like your connection to him is elevated and special. He believes in soulmates and wants to experience that “meant to be” feeling.^{[7]
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  Expert Interview} Keep that in mind when you spend time together one-on-one.

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He’s physically affectionate.

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As water signs, Scorpios are sensual beings and passionate lovers. Eyedealism says Scorpios are intense and passionate people.^{[8]
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Expert Interview} Scorpio’s secondary ruler is Mars, the planet of red hot desire, so their passion makes sense. A Scorpio man in love won’t have a problem with PDA, and in private, expect a lot of steamy action. Think intense makeout sessions, tons of cuddling, and endless nights of energetic sex.
- Eyedealism explains that a Scorpio will be enthralled with you when he’s into you. He’ll want to be sexual and intimate with you–so if he’s showing you physical affection, he has feelings for you.^{[9]
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- Eyedealism also says that sex is never shallow for a Scorpio. Intimacy makes them feel vulnerable, and Scorpios will only allow themselves to feel vulnerable if they’re truly interested in the other person.^{[10]
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- In bed, Scorpios tend to like taking control and being in charge. If you’re comfortable, let your guy take the lead.
- Reader Poll: We asked 629 wikiHow readers if they think Scorpios are the most sexual zodiac sign, and 88% of them said yes. [Take Poll]

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He gets jealous.

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Mars' influence makes Scorpio men ready to fight for their partner.Eyedealism says Scorpios can be jealous and even obsessive. If you show even the tiniest bit of interest in another man, it’s likely to set him off. Being comfortable enough to be openly jealous shows vulnerability, though. Scorpio will only allow themselves to feel vulnerable if he trusts you.^{[11]
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- Eyedealism says Scorpios can be a bit paranoid, as well. They tend to assume other men are aggressively and obsessively pursuing the object of their desire (in this case, you). They're constantly worried someone will steal their partners.^{[12]
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- Remember, it’s okay if he expresses discomfort about other guys. But it’s not ok if he starts being controlling and telling you who you can and can’t see.^{[13]
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- According to Tali & Ophira Edut, it’s important for a Scorpio man to feel like you’re with him and only him.^{[14]
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- Tip: Avoid trying to make a Scorpio jealous—it’ll push him away.

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He opens up to you.

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Pluto’s influence means that Scorpios can be hesitant to share how they feel. These guys prefer to look macho and stoic to the outside world. But when they’re in love, Scorpios will turn their partner into their confidant. Your Scorpio man will drop the act and let you in on his deepest insecurities, loftiest dreams, and complex, beautiful inner life.
- Encourage your Scorpio man to open up by saying things like, “I love hearing about your dreams” and “I’m always here for you if you need someone to talk to.”
- Eyedealism says that Scorpio might be the most distrustful sign of all. So, if your guy opens up to you and shows that he trusts you, he’s serious about you.^{[15]
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- According to Eyedealism, it’s especially meaningful if a Scorpio shares personal secrets with you. They see secrets as powerful weapons and would never share them with anyone they don’t trust.^{[16]
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- Astrologer and spiritual coach Aliza Kelly it’s really hard for Scorpios to open up and let someone in–it usually takes them a while. But once trust is established, Scorpios are incredibly loyal and trustworthy.^{[17]
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- Tip: Tali & Ophira Edut suggest making your guy feel safe and show up for him consistently–building that trust is essential.^{[18]
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He asks you questions about your life.

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A Scorpio in love will want to know everything there is to know about you. Feel free to share with him, but don’t give up all your secrets and stories right away! Eyedealism says that Scorpios need a little bit of mystery to stay interested, and that intrigue will actually make him even more obsessed with you.^{[19]
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- Tali & Ophira Edut say the exact same thing: “A little mystery goes a long way in a Scorpio relationship.”^{[21]
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He introduces you to his friends and family.

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A Scorpio will only do this if he’s truly caught feelings. Scorpios are very passionate and never do things in half measures. Once he knows for sure that he has feelings for you, he’ll introduce you to his whole inner circle. This is a significant move for a Scorpio because it’s an indication that he trusts you (which is major for this zodiac sign) and sees a future with you.

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He shares his possessions with you.

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When they’re in love, Scorpios believe in the expression “what’s mine is yours.” His favorite hoodie? He’ll lend it to you. His apartment? He might just give you a key. Return his show of loyalty by treating everything he shares with you with the utmost respect.
- At the same time, Scorpios need privacy, Eyedealism stresses.^{[22]
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  Expert Interview} Make sure to give your Scorpio space from time to time, and wait for him to offer to share things with you.

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He’s protective of you.

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Your well-being will become his #1 priority. A Scorpio’s the type of guy who’ll always walk you home or walk you to your car. He’ll text you to make sure you get home safe. In public, you might find him looking over at you to make sure you’re doing okay. If anyone tries to hurt you, he’ll take that as a personal threat.
- Your emotional pain will deeply impact a Scorpio, too. Feel free to talk to him about the stressful problems in your life. He’ll want to help, and he’ll probably offer great advice.

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He gives you little gifts.

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Scorpios will opt for romantic gestures rather than verbal declarations of love. A Scorpio man in love might surprise you with your favorite snack, a gorgeous piece of jewelry, or a custom-made playlist. As fixed signs, these guys are masters of commitment and consistency. Gifts won’t be a one-time deal. Don’t be surprised if your Scorpio guy shows up every day with something sweet.
- Want to give back to your Scorpio? Go for anything that says “bad boy.” Create a personalized heavy metal playlist, pick out a leather wallet, or get him a historical book on the world’s greatest military generals.

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He offers to help you.

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Scorpios are signs of action, so they show love through acts of service. Eyedealism says once they decide you’re the one, these guys go all-in.^{[23]
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Expert Interview} Whether you need a ride to the airport, help with opening a stubborn jar, or a shoulder to cry on, he’ll be there. This drive to help comes from Mars’ energetic, vivacious influence as well as Scorpio’s emotional water sign nature.
- Tip: Eyedealism recommends building trust with your Scorpio by showing him you’re reliable and there for him, too.^{[24]
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  Expert Interview} Show up when he needs support, send him encouraging texts, and lend an ear when he’s going through a tough time.

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WikiGladeCatcher583

I went on a date with someone recently and they told me they were a Scorpio and idk if that's a red flag or not. I've heard that Scorpios are obsessive and difficult to be in a relationship with, is that facts or nah? I kinda wanna go on a second date but idk if I should so pls help

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